One thing is certain, Tantric sex is not for everyone. Tantra requires a level of consciousness that is based on energetic and spiritual substance. In a nutshell, the foundation of Tantric sexual practice is learning to generate copious amounts of orgasmic energy, and navigation it up the energetic pathways that target the spiritual faculties that reside in the brain. It is in the brain station sexual energy, the cool energy from which we all sprang, transforms consciousness. In this way, a new perceptual reality can be born that gives birth to Sameness Consciousness ( Harmony ). Saints and sages throughout time have attempted to illustrate this “ no - mind, ” pure consciousness state, whereby the numero uno experience is a touch of integrality with all of creation combined with the frame up that divinity is within.
As a Tantra Yoga Instructor, my approach to esoteric womanliness is to inspire within you a reinterpretation of your own sexual behavior so that you may come to know sex not only as healthy, wholesome, pleasureful, and fun, but also a vehicle for divine understanding. It should be noted that the true function of orgasm, beyond ecstatic pleasure, is to feed a lift - off that propels us into a totally new dimension of spiritual awareness that at last leads to higher consciousness. Accomplished male lovers learn to savor and e - mush - t - e - n - d the orgasmic build - up, by withholding ejaculation, as a means of cultivating sexual energy.
It should be noted that tantric sexual techniques were primarily designed for men, over unlike women, men lose vital life - force energy when they ejaculate. This loss of vital energy is reflected in their diminished erectile capacity, the immediate loss of activity in their partner, the waning of their sexual crave, the need for sleep and their inability to access the spiritual dimension through sex. Seminal retention was developed not only to reconcile this gender imbalance, but also to confirm complete female sexual fulfilment.
However, the path to spiritual enlightenment through the vehicle of ecstatic sex requires a sexual skill set that enables a man to surrender acutely into high states of arousal, on the “ cutting edge” of orgasmic release, just before the point - of - no - return, but without spilling over and strident the system. Chronic ejaculators, who are forever short - circuiting the orgasmic build - up with their incessant and usually premature discharges, may be unaware that the physical body has a much greater capacity for agonizing pleasure if ejaculation is unexposed and the system is allowed to stay up and running.
Let’ s not slight that as men, we only experience pleasure until we ejaculate. Thereafter, we enter a less than overwhelming recalcitrant celebration when our erectile capacity is diminished and our penis does not like to be touched. That in itself wouldn’ t be so bad if it wasn’ t accompanied by a post - ejaculatory letdown that tends to sabotage the close emotional bond that lovemaking induces, and that many women find so appealing. For all these reasons, male ejaculation is a hugely overrated source of sexual pleasure and calling it the “ climax” of pleasure is really just a bad habit apart over from early programming.
While virtually every man knows the fleeting pleasure of an ejaculation, to achieve a thoroughly e - endearment - t - e - n - d - e - d ecstatic response, a method must be active just before the point - of - know - return, to prevent, or at rudimentary delay ejaculation. Here’ s how it works! Each time a man approaches the point - of - no - return; he employs a simple technique that contracts the internal muscles used in sex. It’ s comparable to squeezing out the last drop after urinating, but with a different intent.
This squeezing rush of his “ sex muscles” must be in the form of a enlarged dominion until the weakness to ejaculate passes and his erection softens. When an ejaculation is successfully averted, we call this a holdback. When properly toned, the sex muscles are well tried to prevent an unwanted ejaculation. Holdbacks lift not only in prolonging lovemaking, but also building arousal to extra peaks once stimulation is resumed. An extended benefit is that the development of the sex muscles provides men with the awesome ability to orgasm without ejaculating. This is sound whereas it assures men that there is no pleasure shortness. After every successful holdback, as soon as the wish to ejaculate passes, stimulation may resume. When the point - of - no - return is once again approached, larger holdback may be employed.
In theory, discerning male lovers may enlist an copious figure of holdbacks in any lovemaking convocation. With no ejaculation later, the lovemaking audience for the man is free to prosper into what has come to be known as recur, almost - ejaculation - pleasure - peaks. These pleasure peaks are what amounts to the male adventure of multiple orgasms that the most frantic women experience. Once a man learns to steward multiple, full - body, orgasmic pleasure peaks in place of a conventional ejaculation - - - any approaching ejaculations may be clear wholly prodigal.
By delaying ejaculation, holdbacks fix up more time for the orgasmic energy to circulate throughout the body until every cell in the body becomes sexually engorged, not just the genitals. Holdbacks also replenish an hopped up orgasmic response of just slightly less excitement than a full - blown ejaculation - orgasm, but single ejaculation, they have the advantage of reoccurring again and again. If a man pays sultry fame, he will grasp that the most extremely exotic time that he experiences is the interval right before ejaculation would occur - - - just unbefitting the orgasmic fatality point. Here, exists a very special “ doorway” that is virtually short-lived to the green beginner. When this doorstep is entered thoughtfully, with lament awareness and qualification, ejaculation can be averted, or late, at introductory until your fiancee has had as many orgasms as she desires. Of course, we also are provided with a very much stinging intensity of pleasure.
With practice, any man can learn to successfully gain this “ doorway” so that the interval just before meridian can be savored and prolonged for maximum pleasure. The key for men is to familiarize themselves with the point just before ejaculation inevitability. It’ s at that point latitude trained male lovers and their cooperative team cease all stimulation. They learn to relax in quiet together safely nestled in the ecstatic space between the world of summit arousal and orgasmic release.
Of course, relaxing on the cutting edge is a bit like motile across a tight rope high big the ground. One accidental slip and it’ s over. The challenge for every man is to stay in force so as not to bring down the system with an unwanted discharge of orgasmic energy. Using a cautionary approach, a Tantric man learns to play on the cutting edge of orgasmic release like a master surfer successfully ride gesticulate after hopped up gesture to rest.
The longer the sexual discharge is dilatory, the more the arousal heightens until the expanding orgasmic energy at the base of the spinal canal can no longer be contained in the genital area, and so, the energy begins to ascend. The upward movement of energy is entirely typic and internal, course up the energy pathways like irresistible reaction of ever increasing bliss. This phenomenon is known as “ raising tantric energy” and is the basic roadmap for transforming orgasmic energy into spiritual power. By the time the orgasmic energy ascends into the brain, an alchemical refinement of the energy has taken place and consciousness is transformed.
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